Think Beyond an
Attorney when Handling Finances in a Divorce
by Jacqueline Bodnar
 This article was first published in Forbes.com
May 30, 2006.
(Editor’s note, August 25, 2008: Tim McNamara is now
the co-founder of New England Divorce Solutions and owner of McNamara Capital, located in
Boston, Mass.)
(Syndicated News) Divorce can have a devastating
financial impact. And with the divorce rate in this country hovering around 50 percent, a
lot of people need to think seriously about their finances when it happens to them. Anyone
who has gone through a divorce knows just how scary and overwhelming it can really be.
Most people get so caught up in the emotions of what's
going on that they spend little or no time properly planning for their financial future.
By doing this, they may end up struggling with financial complications for decades or
settle for far less than what they could have. Instead, a lot of people are now hiring a
neutral party to scrutinize the financial statements of the relationship and come up with
a solid plan. Those being hired to do this are usually certified divorce financial
analysts (CDFA).
"I'm someone who has been through a divorce,"
says Timothy McNamara, a CDFA who owns McNamara Financial Strategies Group, of Wachovia
Securities, located in Waltham, Mass. "I know first-hand just how financially
devastating the crisis can be. That's why I have made it my mission to help others avoid
financial destruction. It's very important, when going through a divorce, to surround
yourself with experienced experts such as the invaluable matrimonial attorney, mediator
and therapist."
Hiring a CDFA is not a replacement for hiring an attorney
or a mediator; rather, they work together to benefit the client. McNamara, along with his
partner, Tracey Manzi, who is a chartered financial analyst, analyzes the financial
numbers and creates powerful spreadsheets that are a key component in helping the
matrimonial attorney make sense out of the client's financial status. They are a neutral
party that helps their clients understand the financial impact of a proposal so they can
accept the most favorable settlement. They simplify their matrimonial attorney's lives by
gathering and sorting through the mountains of financial statements that include years of
tax returns and months of check registers. All this is done in an effort to prepare the
most important document in a divorce, the statement of net worth.
"In the rare event a client's divorce goes to trial,
this is the most important document ever prepared in the eyes of a judge who will be
reviewing this one piece," says McNamara. "Often attorney's try to prepare this
document themselves or even worse, delegate it to their paralegal staff who has no
training in divorce finance and does not know what to look for with every number being
entered on a line."
"There are many financial areas that people need to
seriously go over when it comes to divorce," says McNamara. "They often are so
caught up in everything going on that they overlook something. We look at everything,
including both personal and business tax returns, dividing pension plans, continued
health-care coverage and how to decide what coverage choice to make, stock options, and
more. We make sure that everything is examined and no stone goes unturned, so that neither
person is left without their fair share. Our specialty is to forecast the long-term
effects of the settlement."
An important fact that McNamara points out is that
lawyers attend law school to become experts in law, not to become financial experts. Many
people are learning how important it is to hire a qualified analyst to thoroughly
investigate the financial situation during a divorce. If something is overlooked by the
attorney, it could end up costing the person thousands of dollars—even millions, over
a lifetime. Clients using the savvy of a CDFA get great results, a quick resolution and
their attorney's avoid malpractice.
"Most individuals, even those who are financial
savvy, cannot and do not make good financial decisions during this grave period,"
says McNamara. "In fact, in that situation, most individuals make such poor decisions
that they feel the effects for the rest of their financial lives. People only have one
chance to get it right, and we are here to help make sure that happens."
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